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Bollywood Love Stories

November 22, 2010

Here are some of my favorite Bollywood love stories from the 90’s until now that really touched me and is quite relatable in many ways both personally and otherwise. These love stories are not the usual Romeo & Juliet kind where the love happens pretty easily but ends in a tragedy or sacrifice. And, I am not talking about Mills & Boon kind of love stories where the girl & boy hate each other only to find out that extreme hate is another word for love. Let’s just leave that one for the psychologists to analyze and figure it out shall we?

Well, the love stories that I am about to allude to are real, complex and mature. They are actually more common in real life but rarely shown in reel life. Okay, let me get straight into it and you will see what I am talking about.

1. Love that has no age-boundaries

The first movie that comes to my mind is Lamhe, a beautiful romantic love story written by Honey Irani made in the early 90’s. It left an indelible mark in my heart as a teenager when I didn’t know much about the matters of the heart.

The gist of the story is a young guy who falls in love with a woman almost a decade older than him but is not reciprocated. He grows up to be a successful entrepreneur but remains single. Years later he comes across this woman’s daughter who is now an orphan and living with his uncle. She is 25 years younger than him and he is shocked to see that she is a splitting image of her mother. Call it a twist of fate, the daughter falls in love with him. The movie expertly balances the emotional and the mental turmoil of the guy and his eventual realization of true love without making it awkward. 

Sridevi who was in her epitome of stardom plays a double role of the mother and then the daughter. In fact this is the only movie that I have actually liked her because she is restrained and subtle unlike her usual melodramatic acting style. Anil Kapoor plays the guy’s role with perfection. Lamhe is a Yash Chopra classic but unfortunately not a box office hit due to a lot of criticism about the age difference. Our society was still very conservative then.

Bollywood Love Stories

Fast forward to 2007, and here comes Cheeni Kum. Just like Lamhe, it is also an unconventional love story between a 34-year old woman and a 64-year old man. Yes, the age difference is huge making it too hard to even believe that a love like this is possible but the movie’s direction, story, dialogues and exceptional performances by Tabu and Amitabh Bachchan make it realistic. Actually, the chemistry between the two characters is so amazing that this huge age difference just becomes a mere number. And, this time the movie was well received and even liked thus showing how much our society has undergone a transformation since the 90s.

2. Confusing Infatuation with Love

A common affliction among teenagers and young adults! Loving the very first thing or a unique thing is quite common in that age and only later do we realize that really, what was I thinking! Well, Hum Dil de chuke Sanam made in 1999 by Sanjay Leela Bhansali sketches a story about a girl’s journey in discovering true love.

The movie starts off as a typical love story where the girl meets boy & boy meets girl and they fall in love. The boy is from Italy and for a girl who has pretty much not set foot outside her small village in India, she is filled with curiosity and a thrill to see this new person living in her house. Pretty predictable first half with songs but then it takes a twist. The boy is not approved by the girl’s father and is thrown out. Before things go public, she is married off to a rich man.

Enter Ajay Devgan who plays the husband who hopelessly falls in love with her while she remains cold, unresponsive and speaks only about her first love unabashedly. Usually an action hero in most movies, Ajay Devgan gives an incredible performance as a helpless husband. Anyway he makes a mission in his life to find his wife’s former lover and restore her happiness. Here is where I can’t help feel even now if true love can be this selfless? Or, is this character actually a master manipulator?

Spoiler alert, in their journey towards finding the girl’s former lover, the girl gets to know her husband and is moved by his undemanding love for her and starts to develop feelings for him. When she finally meets her former lover, she realizes how shallow her first love was. None other than the beautiful Aishwarya Rai plays the protagonist exquisitely portraying the subtle change as she grows from an immature girl into a matured woman realizing the meaning of true love!

Hum Dil de chuke sanam-Jab we Met

A more recent one on similar lines is Jab We Met. A young, spirited and a spunky girl, crazy in love with a guy, leaves her home, her kith and kin in hopes of settling down with him. She is more with the idea of love itself than really understanding the meaning of it. While on the run she helps a depressed business man on the verge of suicide to pick up the pieces of his life and start again. He is mesmerized by her effervescence and her take on life/love and falls for her despite knowing that she loves this other guy. Months later he learns that she was jilted by her boyfriend and had in turn become a recluse to avoid causing shame to her family. He reminds her of her old bubbly self and as she gets back to her true self she then realizes her love for him and what true love means.

Friendship = Love

Wake up Sid

Wake up Sid – This is my personal favorite. The movie is about a rich, young boy played aptly by Ranbir Kapoor who has absolutely all the material things that one can ever aspire to have but has no ambition in his life. He meets Aisha played by Konkona Sen Sharma who is an aspiring writer and knows what she wants in her life. Their paths cross and they become friends. Even though they are poles apart, they complement each other. He slowly falls in love with her but knows that she considers him a loser and he picks himself up but is scared to admit his love for the fear of losing his friendship. The movie ends with them clearing their misunderstanding and expressing their love. A priceless love story set amidst comedy and camaraderie directed by Ayan Mukherjee.

Hope you guys like these movies, they are realistic but at the same time are entertaining with great songs and I am sure it will resonate with a lot of you in some way or the other as love really has no bounds. It is a complex emotion where a few are lucky to find it quick and easy but for a few, it takes time. For all those who are waiting for a Mr. or Ms. Right, patience is the key. Love comes knocking at the door when you least expect it! xoxo!

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